Why Soul-Mates Don’t Always Turn Out As Planned

 

OK, been giving some thought to the whole Soul-Mate thing recently…

… And how… for a few people… they meet their Soul-Mate… and luckily, they do indeed end-up living happily ever after.

The fairy-tale ending… yes, it does happen occassionally.

But for many… the whole thing just doesn’t go as planned… their Soul-Mate either never turns up… or isn’t the person they were expecting.

And so the relationship doesn’t seem to be what they signed-up for… or what they agreed to.

And when they check… they can’t seem to figure out what they did wrong.

Sometimes… there is some limiting belief on their side they need to work with and release, admittedly…

But often… there is nothing they could or should have done… as the imperfection lies completely on the other side… with the other person.

But how can that be… because they are my Soul-Mate?

So what is going on here?

OK, here is an analogy which, I believe, helps to explain the process… and one of the BIG potential problems… involved with the whole Soul-Mate thing.

Whether your Soul-Mate is meant to be the great love of your life… or a business partner who is meant to help you get your work out to the world

Imagine 2 Space Shuttles… orbiting above the Earth… docked together…

And the pilot of Shuttle A says to Shuttle BLet’s go down to Earth… and meet up in New York for a meal.

And the pilot of Shuttle B saysYes, that’s a great idealet’s do it.

So they undock… fire their engines… and start the long descent down to the planet below…

And very soon, they are moving down into the Earth’s upper atmosphere… and the tiles on the underside of their fuselage are glowing red with the heat…

But they keep going…

And then when they have descended down through the upper atmosphere… they hit the lower atmosphere… the clouds… the winds…

Where the winds can be blowing hundreds of miles an hour…

In fact, blowing them off course

So their course was originally set for New York, and their intended rendezvous at the restaurant…

But the winds in the atmosphere are so fast and strong… each of the Space Shuttles is continually being blown off course…

Unless they compensate to correct their course.

Which is what happens with modern airplanes, as they streak across the sky, flying at 5 miles up or more…

If a plane is travelling from London to Sydney… flying around the Earth literally… as it flies, or tries to fly, in a straight line… which is the best way to get from A to B… thus using up the least fuel… the winds 5 miles up are continually pushing it off course… away from flying in a straight line.

But in response, the on-board computers are programmed to continually do small course-corrections… and these continual course corrections ensure that it remains on course… they keep bringing it back to the straight line of its intended course.

So the plane, which set out from London… does finally reach Sydney… not land on Easter Island… or worse, run out of fuel and ditch in the Pacific Ocean.

Modern airplanes get from A to B… by flying a line between the two… continually being blown off course… and continually doing small course corrections to bring them back onto their intended course.

Now, returning to our 2 Space Shuttles analogy… returning from Outer Space… as they hit all the wind and turbulence in the Earth’s atmosphere… and so are each blown off course…

Suppose Shuttle A does do the required course corrections to remain on course for New York

But the other ShuttleShuttle B… doesn’t… it allows itself to be blown off course entirely.

What will happen?

Well…

Shuttle A does reach it’s chosen destination… New York… at the right time.

But Shuttle B could end up in Los Angeles… or Rome… or Reykjavik

Basically, somewhere where it did not originally intend to go.

And that’s basically the same problem for all Souls… and their Soul-Mate contracts… when they come down from the Celestial Realm… and into the turbulent energies of the Earth plane.

In the Celestial Realmthere is no turbulence… nothing which might deflect a Soul from achieving its chosen intention…

Life is direct and straight-forward in the Celestial Realmand you are never in need of an umbrella.

So two Souls can meet up, exchange information and energy very easily… and decide to share a life-time down on the Earth plane

And the same is also true when a single Soul set’s out a life-purpose to explore and achieve during their next incarnate life-time on Earth… at the planning stage, everything seems clear, calm and straight-forwards.

Only the thing is… the Earth plane is not as calm and peaceful and serene as the Celestial Realm.

In total contrast… the Earth plane is a dimension of turbulent and chaotic energies

Virtual energy winds blowing at 500 miles an hour or more.

And as soon as the new and descending Soul enters these energies…

Becoming a small baby… forgetting its Divine nature… starting the process of developing an individual and distinct personality…

The newly incarnate Soul starts to be blown off course…

It starts to become what its family and society wants… rather then what its Soul intended…

It starts to wonder offpossibly in totally the wrong direction.

Now if the personality self is able to listen to its inner voice… and has sufficient strength of will… and lives in a supportive culture and society… then it is probably able to start the life-course corrections which will allow it to achieve its intended life-purpose… and meet up with its chosen Soul-Mate in New York

It is able to initiate the course corrections which allow it to become the individual which the 2 Soul-Mates originally intended back in the Celestial Realm before birth…

But if the Soul is not able to initiate these life-course corrections

Because either:

  • It cannot or will not listen to its inner voice
  • It lacks sufficient strength of individual will to follow its chosen path
  • It does not live in a supportive culture or society
  • Or it starts lusting after other dreams… especially materialistic, Ego-driven dreams…

Then the Soul starts to be blown off course by the turbulence of the Earth plane

It starts to follow a completely different life-path… one where it ends up in Rio de Janero and not New York… and so never meets their chosen Soul-Mate

Or it does end up in New York… but lacking the type of personality self that was intended for the envisioned Soul-Mate relationship… i.e. say they are far more selfish and childish then was originally intended…

Hence the Soul-Mate relationship either never happens… or soon falls apart… because the Other is not the right fit for the intended relationship.

So if you have ever found yourself…

Waiting for a Soul-Mate who doesn’t turn up…

Or struggling in a Soul-Mate relationship with someone who isn’t what you were expecting…

Where the relationship doesn’t seem to be what you signed-up for… or what you agreed to.

And you can’t figure out what you did wrong… !!!

Then consider…

First, it may not be your fault…

And no one should ever stay in a relationship that isn’t right for them… no matter what was originally intended and set-out in the Celestial Realms

Because, as I have attempted to show…

A relationship may have been planned and set-out up there

But it can get seriously blown off course on the way down to the Earth plane

And so eventually be nothing like what was originally intended when it finally turns up in your life…

So never think you should be confined to a relationship just because it is defined as Soul-Mate… if it is not the right fit… if the other isn’t right for you… free-will applies to Soul-Mate relationships too… especially ones which have been seriously blown off course

Namaste 🙂

(c) Brian Parsons, March 2018.

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